Cooking, Holidays

Chicken Soup Is Always A Good Idea

It’s the Sunday before Christmas, The cards have been mailed, all the gifts are wrapped, and everything for our holiday dinner for two has been purchased. That leaves making Dean a batch of peanut butter fudge, and a pot of homemade chicken soup with pasta.

It is a cold dreary day, a perfect time to make the soup. There is something cozy, nourishing, and delicious about this homemade soup. I have made this recipe countless times, and this version is a favorite. This soup is all about the yummy rich broth that will warm you inside.

1 Whole Chicken – 4 lbs’ish
1 large Yellow Onion
5 Carrots
5 Celery Stalks
1 Garlic Bulb (big one or 2 small)
4 Springs Fresh Thyme
5 ounces Ditalini or other small pasta
1 32 Ounce Chicken Bone Broth
8 Cups Cold Water
Kosher Salt
Black Pepper Mill or Peppercorns

You can skip this step, but it really does make the chicken even better. 4 or 5 hours before you make the soup (or even overnight) unwrap the chicken and pat it dry, set the chicken in a shallow dish. Remove the giblet package, open and place them in the dish too. Salt everything very well. If you use Morton Kosher Salt use at least 1 Tablespoon on the outside, and 1 Teaspoon inside the cavity. Morton is more salty than Diamond, so adjust to the brand you use. Loosely cover the chicken and giblets, put the dish in the fridge.

When you are ready to make the soup:

In a large heavy pot (I use a 4 quart pot with lid) place the chicken breast side up. Add the following :
Quarter the large yellow onion – do not remove skin.
Chop 2 of the carrots into large chunks – do not peel.
Chop 2 celery stocks into large chunks – if there are celery leaves put those in too
4 Sprigs fresh thyme – leave on the branches
1 Head of garlic – do not peel, just cut on the equator to half
1 32 Ounce chicken bone broth (will make the broth a deeper color)
8 Cups cold water
If you have a pepper mill do several turns all over the top of the chicken, liquid, and vege, or toss in 9 or 10 whole peppercorns

Bring to a boil, skim the top as needed to remove any bubbling foam. Cover with the lid and turn down to a simmer. Let it simmer for 60 minutes, or until the chicken is cooked through.

While the chicken cooks peel 3 carrots and cut them into circular slices, and do the same with 3 stalks of celery and set aside for later.

When the chicken is done remove from the pot, and put on a board or plate. While the chicken cools enough to handle, strain the broth. Discard all the vegetables from the stock, they’ve done their job.

Put the broth back in the pot and taste for seasoning, add salt or pepper if needed. Bring the seasoned broth to a boil and add the ditalini. Stir well, and add the carrots and celery. While the pasta and vege cook remove the skin from the chicken and tear into pieces. When the pasta is cooked add the chicken. Turn the stove off and check for seasoning. I always add fresh thyme leaves to the finish the soup. Serve & enjoy!

Family, Holidays

That Holiday Spirit

This year it will be a Christmas for two, Dean & I. Before Thanksgiving we decided we wouldn’t put up the big holiday tree. It is a lot of work, and we weren’t feeling the Christmas spirit. Then one evening, shortly after Thanksgiving, we were talking and I mentioned I miss having a tree and feel like it would make my heart so happy. He agreed with a nod, and we moved on to other topics.

The next morning I got up and went to work, and when I got home that evening our front door area was decorated. There was a new wreath, new holiday mat, lots of lights, garland, and glittery things. I was wowed! I unlocked the door, amazed at all the holiday fun, and was greeted by the sweetest 5′ tree. Next to it were the holiday bins filled with my favorite ornaments, and more glittery things. He had also gotten a smaller star and tree skirt for our little tree.

I was so surprised and touched that this man spent his day doing all of this just to see me smile and to make my heart happy. We spent the evening decorating the tree, listening to Christmas music, and enjoying the spirit of the season.

Each night our little tree, patio and entry are lit up, and so too is my heart. Dean really has given me what I needed this holiday season. We will miss family & friends, but our Christmas for two is beyond wonderful in so many ways.

Real Estate

Is The Customer Always Right?

Most have heard the phrase, “the customer is always right”. Perhaps in 1909 when Harry Selfridge coined it he knew it was good marketing based on a fib. He made it his staff’s mantra, and it worked. His success at Selfridges shows he knew a thing or two about keeping customers loyal to his brand.

Fast forward a hundred plus years and the phrase is still tossed out again and again, but do people believe it? I don’t. The customer is not always right, but they sure as heck don’t want to be told they are wrong. How can a client be told they aren’t right, and change their mindset without being insulted?

If a client is talking about something and I know it isn’t correct, I let them finish. The last thing they need is for me to interrupt by saying, “No, that is wrong”, or “That isn’t going to happen”, or worse yet, “That’s crazy”! (trust me, I’ve wanted to say that a time or two).

Remember everyone wants to be heard, and by listening I am keeping the flow of communication open and positive. When they are done speaking I express that what they said is interesting, or something I hadn’t thought of in that way. I take that few seconds so they feel validated and not ignored, then I say, “How about this”? I can start explaining the ins and outs and get us on the same page.

Listening to the client is vital to getting the job done right. Learning their wants, needs, and managing expectations is part of every deal. Plus, in listening to them I have learned a lot of things, and being able to see a situation from their viewpoint has taught me many things.

So, the customer isn’t always right, but they aren’t always wrong. It is a give and take relationship that will benefit all parties if we just communicate effectively, be respectful to each other’s ideas, and know there is more than one way to solve a problem.